Dear Deb,

 I am a man with a lot of money and fair looks, so I am curious as to why I seem unable to get more dates, and follow-up dates are a particular rarity.  I make every effort to be courteous -- pointing out when a woman's clothing choice makes her not look fat and etcetera.  And I also make sure the lady I am with is well aware that I have no problem spending money for her enjoyment -- I always pay in cash so the woman can see how much cash I have and I often leave my wallet on the table during dinner so she can see how nice and fat with bills it is. Should I simply offer the woman cash directly, rather than trying my more subtle methods of wooing her?

Dear Scott, 
There are a lot of women out there that think only of money, but a woman with substance and integrity is not interested in a mans wallet size.  Women want a caring
and sensitive man.  A man that will compliment them on how they look, listen to them, have conversations with them, spend time with them, and treat them as though
no one or nothing else in the world would ever come before them.  It's wonderful that you have a lot of money, but you might want to reconsider thinking that this is the most important thing that a woman is looking for.  Purchase the book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" and read it closely.  This book will help you to understand women and what they are looking for.  Educate yourself on what women want and need in a relationship.  Once you've done that, you'll find that developing a relationship with a woman will come much easier.  Let us hear from you after you have
done some reading...:)
Deb2

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