Dear
Deb...
Q. Dear
Deb... Do you think it’s OK for guys to check out other girls when they
are with their girl? I mean, he can’t be that crazy to think that I
can't see what he's up to. Signed, Fed Up in
Five Towns, NY
A.
Dear Fed Up...
Sometimes I wonder if guys do this sort of stuff on purpose. Oh, I know
I’m going to get a bunch of e-mail over that statement!! Come on
guys… I’d love to hear from you on this one. Just curious, Fed,
are you dating, living together or married? How old are you ? Has he
always done this or is it a recent thing? I’ll write back to you as soon
as I hear from you. Meanwhile... don't let it get to you. - Deb
Dear
Deb... To
answer your question, we have been dating for about six months. I'm 17 and
he's 19. I find it such a turn off that he gawks and stares at just about
every girl that he sees right in front of me! He's been doing this from
just about day one. Thanks;-)
A.
You can hit him
over the head with your purse the next time he does it -- that should stop
him! If that is the only gripe you have against him consider yourself
lucky and just ignore it. Just because he looks at other women doesn't
mean he likes you any less. Yes, it's rude and he probably looks stupid
doing it (have a secret laugh to yourself the next time he does it) but
don't dwell on it, it'll only get you madder.
In
response to this letter .... Find a guy who
isn't a jerk. Me and my girlfriend have been together five months and I have yet
to check out another girl when I am with her. So find a guy that likes you
enough to worry about your feelings.
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