July 15, 2000

Q. How do I get a female friend to become more than just a friend?

A. Be charming -- just like you would if you were trying to date her, but don't be pushy or desperate. You might also want to plan something fun to do and ask her to join you. Compliment her too, and notice her reaction. If you think she might be interested in being more than friends, you could make some physical contact (like gently grasping her arm or hand when you talk and making eye contact). You should be able to tell if there is a chance for romance from the way she reacts. I wish you the best.

Deb 

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